Christian Life & Marriage Coach · Author

Biblical truth with depth, clarity — and a way to live it.

Trevor helps people understand Scripture and apply it to the marriages, decisions and wounds they're actually carrying. Start with a live class, or begin with the free 30-day guide.

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Next live class: The Hard Conversations Intensive, Sunday 27 September, 10 AM Pacific

Cover of The Significance of a Man by Trevor — Tap a cover to open it on AmazonThe Significance of a Man · *The Significance of a Woman*

Cover of The Significance of a Woman by Trevor — Tap a cover to open it on AmazonThe Significance of a Man · *The Significance of a Woman*

Live classesA live class twice a month and a four-week cohort

BooksTwo paperbacks on Biblical manhood and womanhood

CoachingOne-on-one calls, standard and enhanced advising

CommunitiesThe Standard for men · Returning To Eden for anyone

TeachingBible teaching for 200K+ followers on TikTok, plus YouTube and Instagram

Live classes & courses

Learn the framework — live, with Trevor in the room.

Live class · twice a month

The Hard Conversations Intensive

You know something needs to be said, but every time you think about saying it, you worry about how they'll respond. This live 2½-hour workshop helps you prepare for one specific conversation with clarity, honesty and intention: how to raise a concern without it becoming an accusation, set a boundary without overexplaining, and what to do when someone gets defensive.

Next class: Sunday 27 September, 10 AM to 12:30 PM Pacific
Second and fourth Sunday of every month · live online · 50 seats
Live teaching, a conversation-planning worksheet and Q&A

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Live cohort · four sessions

Understanding God, Ourselves & Those Around Us

Why do we repeat the same cycles, know what is right yet struggle to do it, and carry shame, fear or anxiety when we long for freedom? This live intensive brings Biblical truth and psychology together to build a framework you can apply immediately — to healing, marriage, relationships and walking closer with God.

Four live sessions: 45–60 minutes of teaching, then 60–90 minutes of live coaching and Q&A
Next cohort starts 17 October
$497 (regularly $697) · three-month payment plan available

The cohort runs on an honour system too: if finances are tight, discount codes on the booking page take up to 90% off — no pressure, no questions. See the codes on the booking page ↗

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Coming soon

Self-paced courses

More courses are on the way. Until then, Trevor's free teachings are on TikTok — short, self-paced, and open to everyone.

Free teachings on TikTok ↗

Free

Learn to Be Honest Without Being Afraid

A free 30-day guided workbook: daily reflections, practical exercises, Biblical insight and prayer, for anyone who finds it hard to say what they think, feel and need without fear, guilt or people-pleasing.

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About Trevor

Faith should restore. Truth should heal. A walk with Jesus should lead to wholeness.

Trevor provides Biblical teaching for people who are tired of surface-level answers and ready for genuine restoration — those who have been wounded by the church, confused by theology, or are looking for a truth that brings freedom rather than fear.

He teaches Scripture with depth and clarity, returning to the original language and context to uncover what was lost, misunderstood or misused, and then connects it to the decisions, relationships and difficult circumstances people face every day. Moving beyond performance-based faith, his work focuses on healing, identity and alignment with the heart of God.

Alongside his books and coaching, Trevor leads The Standard, a community for men who want growth in their financial, physical, emotional and spiritual lives, and he speaks at events, panels and workshops.

A note from Trevor

“If we are still controlled by the fear of punishment, we have not yet fully matured in our understanding of His love.”

— Trevor

Scripture & theologyPurposeMarriageMasculinity & femininityPersonal healingPractical Christian living

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Book library

Two books, one design: who God made a man and a woman to be.

Both are published paperbacks, also available for Kindle, and sold on Amazon. Ebooks are coming soon.

The Significance of a Man

Paperback · 131 pages · published December 2025 · also on Kindle

A Biblical exploration of masculine identity, purpose and spiritual restoration — written for men who feel the weight of responsibility, the ache of unspoken wounds, or the quiet pressure to be strong without ever being vulnerable.

Buy the paperback on Amazon ↗ Kindle edition

The Significance of a Woman

Restoring the Design of Dignity, Purpose, and Spiritual Authority · Paperback · 65 pages · published June 2025 · also on Kindle

From Eden's garden to the empty tomb, Scripture reveals that the woman was never created to be secondary — but sacred. Through Biblical insight, Hebrew word study and devotional reflection, this book restores the original design behind ezer kenegdo, the "helper suitable" of Genesis.

Buy the paperback on Amazon ↗ Kindle edition

Read them together

Written to sit side by side — for husbands and wives, small groups, or anyone rebuilding their understanding of who God made them to be.

Each book is purchased separately on Amazon.

The Significance of a Man ↗ The Significance of a Woman ↗

Ebooks — coming soon

Digital editions and new titles will be added to the library here as they are released.

Coming soon

Coaching

Private work with Trevor — small, relational and priced plainly.

Standard and enhanced advising both begin with a free 45-minute consultation — a call to see whether we would work well together: where you are, what you're navigating, and what kind of support would actually serve you in this season.

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Individuals or couples

One-on-one call

Fastest turnaround, no commitment, immediate support — for an immediate need or a simpler relational dynamic that can often be worked through quickly.

One 60-minute private call
Weekday availability, typically within 24 hours of booking

$450 per hour

The booking page runs on an honour system. If finances are tight, use one of the discount codes listed in the service description — whichever is honest for you:

code1$393.75
code2$333.00
code3$281.25
code4$225.00

Per hour, no questions asked. Find out more on the booking page ↗

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Individuals or couples

Standard advising

Deeper work and structured support — for men and women who want a deeper understanding of themselves and their relationships and are ready to do internal and practical work.

Two private sessions a month, up to 90 minutes each (per person for couples)
Direct access to Trevor on Telegram between sessions (couples share one channel)
Complimentary copies of both books, digital and physical, plus the Attachment Style Workbook
Personalised guidance across relationships, finances, faith and life direction

$1,147 per month · individuals · six months ($6,882 in total, or $5,849 paid in full)

$1,721 per month · couples · six months ($10,326 in total, or $8,778 paid in full)

Paying in full saves 15%. Also available as a three-month contract, priced proportionally. No obligation to finish, and clients who complete six months may renew at the same rate.

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Individuals or couples

Enhanced advising

The most hands-on option — for those who need the most work, the most touch points and the closest support through a season.

Bonus Double the sessions per person

Four private sessions a month per person, minimum 90 minutes each — twice the standard contract (couples: eight a month, plus a monthly joint check-in)
Unlimited Telegram access for same-day communication between sessions
Complimentary copies of both books; free access to future webinars and local speaking events
Future retreats at a significant discount

$2,294 per month · individuals · six months ($13,764 in total, or $11,699 paid in full)

$3,441 per month · couples · six months ($20,646 in total, or $17,549 paid in full)

Paying in full saves 15%. When the six months conclude, you are offered an extension at the same rate, or standard advising at the value locked in at signing.

Book a consultation

Book a consultation — a free 45-minute call to see whether we would work well together.

Talk through where you are and what support fits. Partners welcome.

If it's a fit, agree the path and start. If not, you still leave with clarity.

If you're not sure which path fits, book a consultation. I hope that helps. — Trevor

All prices in US dollars. Booking and payment run through Trevor's booking pages.

Communities

Don't do this alone.

I love you. Find your people here. — Trevor

Men

The Standard — men's community

A place for men to learn, grow and hold each other accountable — in their financial, physical, emotional and spiritual lives — without burning out. Led by Trevor.

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For anyone

Returning To Eden

For those who want to work on themselves, learn relational skills and grow in a supportive environment without entering private coaching: lessons and frameworks on attachment, communication and relational patterns, self-work resources and structured exercises, group discussions, and a space for accountability and personal growth. Hosted on Skool.

Explore the community ↗

Coming soon

Women's group

A community for women is on its way. When it opens, the details and join link will be here.

Opening soon

Events

Upcoming.

A live class twice a month, and the next cohort in October.

27Sep

The Hard Conversations Intensive

A live 2½-hour workshop to prepare for one specific conversation with clarity, honesty and intention. Runs the second and fourth Sunday of every month.

Sunday 27 September10:00 AM Pacific2½ hours · online50 seats

Save my seat

17Oct

Cohort: Understanding God, Ourselves & Those Around Us

Four live sessions — teaching, then live coaching and Q&A — for people who want to move beyond information and apply it.

Starts 17 OctoberVirtual$497 (regularly $697)

Honour-system discount codes on the booking page — up to 90% off if finances are tight, no pressure. See the codes ↗

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Invite Trevor to speak

Talks of 30, 60 or 90 minutes, panels and workshops — in person or virtual. Send the event details and Trevor will come back to you.

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